I will never get over how weird it feels to have tragic and emotional chapters of your life where you just also still go to work, and the grocery store, and see funny videos online all while feeling such paralyzing fear and heartache
I will never get over how weird it feels to have tragic and emotional chapters of your life where you just also still go to work, and the grocery store, and see funny videos online all while feeling such paralyzing fear and heartache
it’s actually really weird to me that a lot of adults don’t seem to remember the worst bits of being a child. were you not horribly aware of when adults were talking down to you as a child? don’t you remember how little autonomy you were allowed, even when it came to things that seemed pretty harmless? don’t you remember the times when adults would seemingly be assholes to you for no reason? even if you had nice and reasonable parents, didn’t you ever have teachers or other adults in power who treated you disrespectfully? didn’t it sting no matter how people justified it?
especially when I was a teenager, it seemed obvious to me & to most of my peers when an adult wasn’t treating us with respect. you could almost smell it, in certain classrooms. there would be this palpable, shifting undercurrent of teenage dissatisfaction whenever some teachers started talking. and it made a lot of the kids act out! which of course made the teachers try to exert their power, which never worked because nobody respected them, which made them get more draconian, etc.
as a teen, I didn’t really get why my peers and I seemingly had a superhuman sense for when an adult was on a power trip. but now I think I get it. kids are systematically denied autonomy, respect, and consistently have the validity of their experiences denied. like, flat-out. they’re a vulnerable class of people made even more vulnerable by their lack of societal rights. being disrespected as a kid is so frequent that I would say it’s a defining experience for most children. is it any wonder they tend to pick up on when an adult doesn’t see them as worth listening to?
so yeah, of course a ton of kids want to be treated “like an adult.” to them, that’s synonymous with being treated like a human being worth listening to. it’s up to you, as an adult, to understand that wish for what it is, and behave accordingly. you don’t gotta be a child psychologist. you don’t gotta be perfect at it. all you have to do is remember how painful adult disrespect could be when you were a kid & do your best to act with some compassion.
this is going to be difficult -> i am capable of doing difficult things -> i have done everything prior to this moment -> this difficulty will soon be proof of capability
image id: a mastodon post by @/dogfox@mastodon.social that reads “David Graeber got an economist to admit that he was not aware of single case where a company was fined more than the profit it turned breaking the law. He summarized this as the government saying: “Do all the crime you want, but if we catch you, you have to give us a cut.”. end id.
“Do all the crime you want, but if we catch you, you have to give us a cut.”
As always, laws are in place simply to control and exploit the poor while the rich do whatever the fuck they want.
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“Virginia Woolf, A Room of One’s Own
[originally published 1929]
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